What Neurodiversity-Affirming Support Means at Mental Care Plus
Being autistic or neurodivergent is not a problem to be fixed. It is one part of who a person is. Our role is to help you, or your family member, live more comfortably and confidently, not to change your identity. The Autism Society emphasizes that no two autistic individuals have the same lived experience, and that is exactly how we work: we start with your strengths, your goals, and the specific challenges that are getting in the way, and we build support around them.
Neurodiversity-affirming care means we respect different ways of thinking, communicating, and processing the world. We focus on practical skills, self-understanding, and emotional wellbeing rather than on trying to make anyone appear “less autistic.” That approach shapes every part of the support described below.
Support After an Autism or ADHD Diagnosis
Many of the people we work with already have a diagnosis and are looking for what comes next. A diagnosis can bring relief and clarity, and it can also raise new questions about relationships, work, school, and mental health. We provide ongoing therapy and support that helps teens and adults understand their own profile, develop coping strategies, and manage the conditions that often travel alongside autism and ADHD.
If You Need an Autism or ADHD Evaluation, Here Is Where to Start
Our focus is ongoing therapy, support, and medication management for people who already have a diagnosis, or who are exploring one with the right specialist. We do not perform formal developmental or autism testing. When a comprehensive evaluation is the goal, we are glad to help you find the right professional. A developmental pediatrician or a pediatric neurologist typically carries out this kind of in-depth developmental assessment, and clinics that specialize in autism testing can as well. Once a diagnosis is in place, we can pick up the ongoing support.
Who We Help
We support autistic and neurodivergent people across the lifespan, including:
- Teens navigating school, friendships, identity, and the transition toward independence.
- Adults and older adults managing work, relationships, daily routines, and mental health.
- Individuals recently diagnosed, including adults who received a diagnosis later in life and are making sense of it.
- Families and caregivers who want to understand a loved one’s needs and support them well.
Because everyone’s profile is different, we match each person with a clinician and an approach that fit their goals rather than applying one formula to everyone.
Signs and Challenges Our Support Can Help With
Autistic and neurodivergent people often thrive in some areas while finding others genuinely hard. The CDC notes that autistic people may have differences in social communication and interaction, along with focused interests and different ways of learning, moving, or paying attention. Support at Mental Care Plus can help with challenges such as:
- Sensory sensitivities and sensory overload in busy, loud, or bright environments.
- Masking and autistic burnout, the exhaustion that can follow long periods of hiding natural traits to fit in.
- Emotional regulation, including big feelings, shutdowns, or meltdowns that are difficult to manage.
- Executive function, such as planning, starting tasks, organization, and time management.
- Social communication, including reading social cues, setting boundaries, and building relationships.
- Change and transitions, such as starting a job, leaving school, or shifts in routine.
If these patterns sound familiar, therapy can give you concrete tools and a place to be understood.
Conditions We Support
Autism Spectrum
The CDC describes autism spectrum disorder as a developmental disability caused by differences in the brain that can last throughout a person’s life, with abilities and needs that vary widely from person to person. We provide neurodiversity-affirming therapy and support for autistic teens and adults, focused on functional skills, self-advocacy, sensory and emotional regulation, and quality of life. We support people at every level of need, whether they live independently or need more day-to-day help.
ADHD
ADHD frequently occurs alongside autism, and it deserves its own focused care. The CDC notes that ADHD is one of the most common neurodevelopmental disorders and often lasts into adulthood. ADHD is the main component of our neurodevelopmental care, and we cover it in depth on our ADHD treatment page. If you are seeking support for ADHD, or for ADHD and autism together, that page is the place to start, and we coordinate care across both.
Co-Occurring Anxiety and Depression
Many autistic and neurodivergent people also live with anxiety or depression, which can grow when demands pile up or when a person spends years feeling misunderstood. We treat these co-occurring conditions directly, through therapy and, when appropriate, medication management, so that support addresses the whole person rather than a single label.
Our Therapy and Support Approaches
Care is delivered by our licensed professional counselors (LPC) and board-certified nurse practitioners (PMHNP-BC), who provide evidence-based, affirming support. You can meet the clinicians who provide this care on our clinicians page.
CBT Adapted for Autistic and Neurodivergent Adults
We use cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and related, structured approaches that are adapted for autistic and neurodivergent thinking styles. That can mean clearer language, concrete examples, visual supports, and a slower pace when it helps. The goal is practical: managing anxious or low mood, unhelpful thought patterns, and daily stress.
Social Skills and Communication Support
For people who want it, we work on social communication in a respectful, strengths-based way, including reading social situations, self-advocacy, boundary setting, and building relationships. This is about giving you more options, never about forcing you to mask who you are.
Emotional Regulation and Sensory Strategies
We help identify triggers for overwhelm and build personalized strategies for emotional regulation, sensory needs, and recovery from burnout. This often includes routines, environmental adjustments, and self-understanding that make daily life more manageable.
Family and Caregiver Support
Support works best when the people around you understand your needs. We offer guidance and education for families and caregivers, and we draw on family therapy and individual therapy so that both the individual and their support network can grow together.
Medication Management for Co-Occurring Conditions
There is no medication that treats autism itself. What medication can help with are the conditions that often occur alongside it, such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, and sleep difficulties. Our prescribing providers offer medication management as an optional, patient-led part of care. If you choose it, we start with your goals, monitor how you respond, and adjust carefully. Medication is never about changing who you are. It is one tool, alongside therapy, for feeling better day to day.
Neurodiversity-Affirming Care and Telehealth Across New Jersey
You can meet with us in person at our Englewood Cliffs office or through secure online therapy and telehealth across New Jersey. Telehealth can be especially helpful for neurodivergent clients who find travel, waiting rooms, or unfamiliar settings draining, since you can meet from a space where you already feel comfortable. Our clinicians offer care in English, and several provide care in Spanish and Russian as well.
Autism and Neurodevelopmental Support in Bergen County
Mental Care Plus is based in Englewood Cliffs, in the heart of Bergen County, and we support autistic and neurodivergent teens and adults throughout the county and across New Jersey by telehealth. If you are looking for local, in-person or online support, we serve individuals and families from these Bergen County communities and beyond:
Insurance We Accept
We work with most major insurance plans to make neurodiversity-affirming care accessible. If you do not see your plan listed, contact us and we will help you understand your options.
- Aetna
- Carelon
- Cigna
- Fidelis
- Horizon NJ Health
- Horizon BCBS NJ
- Magellan
- Medicaid
- Medicare
- Optum (UnitedHealthcare)
- Oscar
- WellCare
Why Choose Mental Care Plus
- Neurodiversity-affirming by design. We build on strengths and respect different ways of thinking, communicating, and processing the world.
- Licensed, experienced clinicians. Care is provided by licensed professional counselors and board-certified nurse practitioners who support neurodevelopmental conditions across the lifespan.
- Therapy and medication management under one roof. When co-occurring anxiety, depression, or ADHD are part of the picture, therapy and medication management can work together.
- In person and telehealth. Meet us in Englewood Cliffs or from home, anywhere in New Jersey.
- Care in more than one language. Support is available in English, with Spanish and Russian also offered by members of our team.
- Most insurance accepted, so support is easier to reach.

